Exposed through experience with a narcissistic
In this section l have decided to expose some of the typical behaviors/traits of a narcissistic (male). Please note that narcissism traits exist both in males and females.
- Time wasters – wasting your time (even after knowing your hectic lifestyle)
- Wanton lying
- Has no or few friends – anti-social
- Is depressed but is in denial
- Sorry is meaningless – just a front
- Having a tendency to deny bad behavior or when comforted about lies
- Not listening to your needs or concerns and feelings.
- Sometimes mirroring you i.e. your expressions or thought process
- Can cause different levels of psychology and or emotional as well physical pain. Sadly for me l experienced all three and the physical pain took its toll. Later l discovered the FREAK has sadistic tendencies – and he did not deny this. As a matter of fact he said he likes sadism.
- If confronted about love/feelings etc it seems alien to them. They prefer to ignore these issues like plague.
- They will not show care for your loved ones. You are the TARGET.
- They consider you as a prize and intend to cling onto like a cling-on as you are the provided of narcissist supply for them.
- They will undermine you and your intelligence
- They will always remind you of your shortfalls. And if you happen to be late for a date – mark my words they will remind you 20 years down the line.
- ME….ME….ME…..ME….ME….ME……ME…..ME……ME……ME……ME…..ME……ME…..ME…OH AND ME AGAIN.
- Jealously…but denies being jealous of others accomplishments.
- Paranoid/lacks trust in others
- Shows little or no interest in what you maybe interested in or say for example your family. Most likely to take a piss out of your family than ask how they are doing.
- Modesty – not in their vocabulary.
- Hates being put on the spot about a particular issue (may withdraw)